I tried Match.com and did not find it helpful.  I know there are some great women in SF who haven't had success with online dating services. I would like to put myself out here, and open my world to SF women looking to meet other 50+ years single women.  These Meet Ups will bring single lesbians in SF together.  My goal is for those who click, to form your own groups. I believe for some women small groups are the best avenue.  Please put your own Meet Up together and post it on this site.  As of …

December 22, 2012 Today was the day to bring lesbians together of all ages who would like to go to dinners, movies, walks, breakfast, start a book group, picnics, good Theater, or classical music and even the opera. As I was perusing the various groups I clearly noticed, that lesbians of all ages were left out of the picture. Hey, I know I'm still active and I bet all of you are too. No point counting the years when the fun will go away, let's enjoy these years to the fullest and get back into l …

Finally! A place for lesbians over 40 to make wonderful friends, meet lovers, and network with professionals. We offer vacation excursions, monthly dinner and dancing, and a host of other really, truly FUN events. Our unique approach allows women to connect quickly, yet deeply. Even shy women are comfortable and find themselves at home since our events offer just enough structure for casual, yet sincere interaction. Also, although some of our events do offer alcohol, drinking is not the focus. L …

This is a group for anyone interested in meeting other lesbian. bisexual and queer women in the mid-peninsula and San Jose area. I started this group because I am new to the area and looking for a community of amazing, fun and like-minded women! Looking forward to meeting everyone!!!

This is the sixth year of Lesbian Summer Camp. There will be three camps this year with the first in April. These camps were created for lesbians to come together and play for an entire weekend. We have tons of fun hiking, swimming, boating, camping and meeting new friends. There are women that come from as far South as San Diego and as far North as Oregon. We have had women fly in from New York, Montana and Chicago to just us for the weekend. Women arrive with a friend, in a group and many fly …

It's so hard to meet other lesbians when you are single! You are almost forced to do the internet meeting game. That often proves to be either unsafe, unreal, or unavailable after all! Here is a way to meet other single Lesbians face to face. Practice talking to each other in a safe, loving environment. Listen to what others are doing to increase their chances of finding love. You will always meet several beautiful people, and you will always leave thinking about what was shared. We meet  twice …

Hers & Hers Inc. - our sole purpose is to create opportunities for single lesbians to meet each other... We create a fun, playful, yet intimate environment where like-minded women have meaningful conversations and meet potential matches through facilitated introductions. If you want to meet other single lesbians... please join our group & attend our events...and bring along your single friends ;-)

Femmes & Friends strive to celebrate the diversity of the lesbian community. We are group of friends interested in meeting other professional lesbians between the ages of 35 and up. Our gatherings will be aimed at inspiring and enriching the lives of lesbians in the San Fransico bay area. A place were accomplished women can come together to socialize and network for both personal and professional enhancement.

Looking for an alternative option to night life in the bay area for women who love women? Would you like to meet with other women who are genuine, mature, intellectual, ambitious, humorous, respectful, independent, and all around stunning? If so, then stay tuned for some upcoming events that will be well worth the wait!

If you like to watch sports, no matter the venue, then this is the group for you. We can watch at a pub or at a game live or just go catch somebody's softball game to offer support or play. All sports ... all good.

We are a loosely knit group of (mostly) lesbians. We started out dining together in Marin as a subset of the Proud Marin Sisters listserv. Now we attend events together in the City, the East Bay, Marin, etc. We are not an organization, but individuals who come together to enjoy events and socializing in the area! We welcome lesbians and their friends from anywhere!

This is a group for Old School Butches and Femmes, that enjoy the Old Fashion BF Dynamic. Minimum age 35. Couples and Singles welcome. I am hoping to make a close-knit group of BF Peeps for socializing and attending events together in our community. LGBT Events, Volunteering, Movies, Dinner, Beach Days, Concerts, Camping, Picnics, Wine tasting, Horseback Riding etc. There doesn't seem to be much of a social outlet for us BF Peeps in the South Bay. I think it is important that we keep our Dynamic …

We are a social and arts community of Asian Pacific Islander queer women and transfolks in the South Bay. We come together as Lesbian, Bi/Multi, Queer women, Trans & Gender Non-Conforming folks of Asian Pacific Islander ethnicities and have FUN. We go hiking, watch movies, have potlucks, go out to eat, go dancing, paddling/kayaking, visit museums, etc. If you are of mixed/West/South/East/Southeast Asian and/or Pacific Islander heritage AND are Trans/Queer woman/Lesbian, come up to one of our mee …

Organizing a Lesbian Meet-up Group for my home town sounded like a wonderful opportunity. I'm hoping this group will develop into a engaging way to meet and network with "like-minded ladies" Any women and her friends that identifies as or with the lesbian community and wants to make new friends or create new relationships should join. I would like this group to become a safe, fun, space for women from the Bay Area.

Are you a queer woman looking to thrive in your thirties, or flourish in your forties? Want to meet new friends, but tired of run-of-the-mill lesbian brunches? Stuck in a rut? Want to get up off your arse and go do something less boring instead? Join us for fun, diverse activities that will leave us with lots to talk about over lunch. Come and bond with new friends on a mini bay area excursion. Ever wanted to try indoor skydiving, go-kart racing, or kayaking? What’s that you say – you don’t want …

Sponsored by the Living Arts Counseling Center Single and Searching: A Group for Women Are you a powerful, independent woman*? Do you long for intimacy with a committed partner? Workshops and groups where you can: Get dating support Get clear on what you want in a partner Get rid of old baggage There is nothing wrong with you. You deserve love just as you are. *Women of all sexual orientations, genderqueer, transgender, people of color, and all ages and stages of life and dating are welcome. …

This group is a social group for gay/bisexual/curious men who place high value on intelligence and character when it comes to dating and relationships. If you think intelligence is hot, you just found the right group. You are highly encouraged to write something interesting in your introduction instead of just one liners. We all love to read something interesting about you!

Are you single? Wanting to find someone for a relationship? Tried the other groups but found it a challenge to meet someone to date? This group is designed specifically for those who are interested in meeting someone to date and hopefully have your dating blossom into a wonderful relationship. There will be a variety of activities that will serve as the starting point of meeting someone in a safe environment.

Face to face interaction... Speed dating is the fast, fun way for single people to meet – live and in person. We host 2-3 meet ups a month, where everyone gets to meet and mingle with all of the attendees and have 8 one-on-one dates that last 8 minutes each. Amazingly, over 98% of meet up goers tell us that they enjoy these meet ups, and over 90% meet someone who they want to see again.

Attempts to dismiss the legitimacy of Butch-Femme as an identity will not be tolerated. Femmes? How do you spot them? This is something Butches have been trying to figure out for some time! This site is for women who DO IDENTIFY. Who are We? What is Butch-Femme? Butch-Femme is about being yourself Exploring and realizing your unique sexuality and your natural gender and/or identity. Embracing Butch-Femme, in whatever form you feel comfortable, is celebrating who you are. JOIN this group if you …

Do you wish you had people to go to happy hours with? Are you ever with people at happy hour and wish it was a group outing? Do you want to do Sunday Fundays by Lake Merritt? Do you want to meet queer womyn in the Oakland area? Then join us!

Group open to all self-identified women interested in polyamory. Polyamory is the theory and practice of openly maintaining multiple sexual and/or romantic relationships. A safe space for all sexual orientations. Join to get scheduled Meetup dates. You must RSVP for each meeting, please don't just show up. I need to have a head count, ahead of time, and it is helpful for other potential attendees to know how many people will be attending. We offer each other mutual support for facing the challen …

Calling all enlightened singles! Are you into transformational work and/or spirituality? Do the words "conscious evolution" give you a warm, fuzzy feeling and you're looking for that right someone who feels the same way? Join our community of enlightened singles who are looking to create true, mad, deep love. Our online community is unique: we will have gay and straight folks in our online community and we'd love to see people "recommending" their gay/straight friends in online conversations. If …

This group is for LGBT and allies who are vegetarians or vegans. Wouldn't it be nice to enjoy an activity with other LGBT folks and not have to be concerned about where you will eat? If yes, then this is the group for you. The plan is to do a variety of fun activities not just eat but when it comes to finding food we'll all be in agreement-no flesh. There are only a few rules - Be respectful. Be responsible. And while this is not intended as a dating or hook up group you may meet someone however …

This group is for single gay and bi Greek, Middle Eastern, European men that are ages 21 to 50 years old and want to make friends, family, date or even find that special guy. We will discuss our cultures and share experiences! Will be fun!

This is a group for queer nannies interested in meeting other queer nannies to spend time with during the day. We'll meet about once a week for play dates at the park, the rec center, or baby rhyme and playtime at the library. We can also have events just for the nannies! Open to anyone who identifies as queer. Come join us!

We have decided to start this group for singles to be able to get active together. Online dating, and awkward singles events are one method. However, activity based dating has proven to be more successful. Creating a Meetup group around this idea, will allow singles to have a great time at an event, regardless of who they meet. Members only requirement is to have a good time!! :)